Friday, December 20, 2013
Christmas weekend is upon us. I would like to issue a challenge for all of us from now through Christmas night: disengage from social media, engage in real relationships. Disengage from staring at a screen, engage in staring at loved ones faces, because you don't know when this will be the last Christmas you are together. A friend of mine buried both of her parents in the past six months. I know she doesn't wish she had a few more moments this past year that she could have spent on Facebook or Pinterest. No, she wishes for a few more precious moments with her parents, to hug them, and tell them she loves them. She did plenty of it while they were alive, but as she said "can we ever really tell those we treasure in our lives that we love them enough? Can we ever really spend too much time with those who are precious to us?" REAL relationships matter.
Disengage from playing online, virtual games and engage in real relationships by playing a card or board game. Laugh together, have meaningful conversations, give hugs, go for a walk, enjoy life. Be thankful. See the beauty that surrounds you in creation, in people.
REAL people, REAL relationships are what matter. Take the next few days to deeply invest in real relationships, face to face.